Tuesday, 23 December 2008

The crying game

Today I've been having a crying day.

I needed one.

For me and for Ray and for our George.

It started early this morning in a dream where George was born alive but no one would even try to help him and I was running around with my tiny baby in my arms begging for his life... I woke Ray up with my sobbing and he woke me out of the dream with a cuddle.

So in between cleaning the kitchen, finding the dining table underneath all the dried washing and making a big batch of Rocky road, (no, of course it all went in the fridge straight away, the very idea) I have been alternately weeping, bawling, howling, blubbering, wailing, sniveling and sobbing.

Bloody hormones.

Bloody fibroids.

I don't know if I feel better for it: better comes in small increments these days, but I had a build up of tears that needed releasing and so I gave myself permission to let the misery in and cry it out. I feel exhausted but I'm smiling a bit more this evening.

Today I've been missing my son inside my belly.

Tomorrow will be better.


5 comments:

  1. We all need one of those now and then. Sorry today was so hard. Tomorrow WILL be better.

    Hugs.

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  2. Please cry and smile as much as you need and heart can stand, it's sounds as this release is healing.

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  3. Cry as much as you need. We all have those days, and I think sometimes we need to just go there in order to cope with the days to come. xoxo

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  4. What I find most amazing about you Barbara is that you understand how effective crying is and that you NEED to do it. Your level of self-awareness surrounding your grieving is astounding.

    I know- I know - I told you all this before. But, truly I sit here and cry for you and marvel at your inner strength.

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  5. Sorry you're having such a hard day and I hope tomorrow is more gentle. I agree with everyone, we do need those days.

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