tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post6590405588108298684..comments2023-09-28T13:56:17.927+01:00Comments on burble: I spoke his name.Barbarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-13707685147424643482008-12-03T13:15:00.000+00:002008-12-03T13:15:00.000+00:00Oh Barbara - what a brave thing to do right from t...Oh Barbara - what a brave thing to do right from the start, and worth it. For, now - you will always say his name. It feels right and real and, "they" don't have to get it.<BR/><BR/>In time, the anger will subside. I went through phases of bitter - stick-it-to-them kind of rightousness when I said her name. Like, "Ha! Take that. Emma makes you nervous? Well, too bad. She is real and alive in my heart!"<BR/><BR/>Now, my emotions are more even keel, but I smile - I always smile when I speak her name. It lights me up from the inside.Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878937591945134056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-30709226435336061022008-12-03T05:42:00.000+00:002008-12-03T05:42:00.000+00:00Scream it from the rooftops. Fuck their being unco...Scream it from the rooftops. Fuck their being uncomfortable. George is loved, he is real and will never be forgotten. Send them my way if you get tired of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-62775230843424564802008-12-02T14:30:00.000+00:002008-12-02T14:30:00.000+00:00Barbara - I am SUPER-proud of you. It is SO incre...Barbara - I am SUPER-proud of you. It is SO incredibly important, and SO incredibly rare, that the untouched people around us (borrowing that term from Monique) remember to say our babies' names. Thinking of you and George today. xoxoezra'smommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17342399045659116165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-54590193459861707622008-12-02T14:24:00.000+00:002008-12-02T14:24:00.000+00:00Thank you all.I will keep saying George's name.Oh ...Thank you all.<BR/><BR/>I will keep saying George's name.<BR/><BR/>Oh Loribeth, what was your daughters name? I would like to share it with you and I'm sure we all would.<BR/><BR/>xxxBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-14850188712611935242008-12-02T14:19:00.000+00:002008-12-02T14:19:00.000+00:00I'm so glad you spoke up, Barbara! People need to...I'm so glad you spoke up, Barbara! People need to know how to talk about lost children--and so many don't. <BR/><BR/>Be well today.Newthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16517611200405647990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-11117096043383767122008-12-02T14:12:00.000+00:002008-12-02T14:12:00.000+00:00I wonder how many people know that our baby actual...I wonder how many people know that our baby actually HAD a name, never mind what it is?? :( Good for you!loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-64078442038571882112008-12-02T10:52:00.000+00:002008-12-02T10:52:00.000+00:00Good on you Barbara! Shout his name! And I'm still...Good on you Barbara! Shout his name! And I'm still on the decafs here, too xoHope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.com