tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post708536037448458188..comments2023-09-28T13:56:17.927+01:00Comments on burble: More angerBarbarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-40112515406824507592008-11-23T03:46:00.000+00:002008-11-23T03:46:00.000+00:00Barbara, I'm sorry that sweet George is not in you...Barbara, I'm sorry that sweet George is not in your arms where he belongs. Disappointment?! Sounds like the understatement of the century. The worst sympathy card we got said something like "as a health professional, i find these things are generally for the best.' The best?! Ezra was a perfectly healthy beautiful baby boy, absolutely would have lived if my placenta hadn't failed him. People are just plain stupid.ezra'smommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17342399045659116165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-57536844741977211222008-11-22T15:54:00.000+00:002008-11-22T15:54:00.000+00:00Hey Barbara,I found my way here through Sally's bl...Hey Barbara,<BR/><BR/>I found my way here through Sally's blog.<BR/><BR/>Your George was beautiful. I'm sorry that you didn't get to keep him for the rest of your life. <BR/><BR/>I am so sorry for the little notelet that you received. I am sure her intentions were not bad, however...... what was going through her head when she wrote that! Disapointment! disapointment to me is when I drive up the road to get myself some chocolate and the corner store has closed only 5 minutes earlier!<BR/><BR/>I hope that things become more gentle for you. <BR/><BR/>Much Love<BR/><BR/>Carly xCarly Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14586501928364642712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-5933750587288122082008-11-22T01:37:00.000+00:002008-11-22T01:37:00.000+00:00I am sorry. I am sorry you lost George. I am sorry...I am sorry. I am sorry you lost George. I am sorry there are inconsiderate people in this world. And I am sorry that you are having to go through this.<BR/>I learned a year ago that there are people who just don't know what to say. And then they try and it is usually something that just doesn't help.<BR/>Fortunately, there are people who understand. There are those that can try to comfort. Hopefully you will find comfort in those people.<BR/>I do hope you find comfort. Hugs are coming your way.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12174475978628574230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-66726373129105488292008-11-21T23:44:00.000+00:002008-11-21T23:44:00.000+00:00Thanks ladies.I was 20 weeks 5 days when I lost Ge...Thanks ladies.<BR/><BR/>I was 20 weeks 5 days when I lost George. Over here after 24 weeks is a stillbirth and before is a miscarriage, or a late miscarriage. Just seems the wrong terminology somehow. It's almost cruel to call a baby that's perfectly formed a miscarriage.<BR/><BR/>I think it's better to rant in here than scream at people who say the wrong thing.<BR/><BR/>I'm calmer now, (again!) and trying to think good thoughts.Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-22056016282533311992008-11-21T23:19:00.000+00:002008-11-21T23:19:00.000+00:00I don't think I consider George a miscarriage. In ...I don't think I consider George a miscarriage. In Australia, it is a stillbirth from 20 weeks on. Was George past that? Anyway, either here nor there, he's still gone and its not right. <BR/>My neighbour said to me about two days after "we were sorry to hear about your little bit of misfortune." Ahhhh! I was friggen 40+ weeks pregnant, this was not a little bit of misfortune, this was a god damned fucking catastrophe! He's old though, and I guess in his day babies dropped dead all over the place, maybe his wife even lost one herself, but it still hurt.<BR/>Thinking of you both.Hope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7456461102167226695.post-35377061248706550012008-11-21T15:51:00.000+00:002008-11-21T15:51:00.000+00:00Oh, Barbara I'm so sorry. George is real and he is...Oh, Barbara I'm so sorry. George is real and he is loved and what happened to you and your husband is sad and I`m so sorry. I sometimes don`t know who I get more angry with - those that say stupid things in trying to comfort us or those who say nothing, as if it never happened at all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com